YOU ARE ENOUGH

Good Lord, the bar is heaven.

I have a lot of thoughts about the Super Bowl Halftime performance. And my thoughts would surprise you.

You won’t hear me critiquing that performance. Not because I don’t think there is anything to critique. You won’t hear my praises here. Not because I don’t think there are things about that performance that should be praised.

But because my critique or praise of that performance doesn’t change anything. It just opens up a space for others to create conflict on my post. And I am 100% NOT HERE for that.

I do not have time in my life for reading all the ways someone agrees or disagrees with me. I’m too busy CREATING JOY to spend my precious thoughts on anything else.

But, what you will hear me say is “Good Lord, the bar is heaven”. I saw that written in a post gone viral and I couldn’t agree more.

We’ve created a culture for women where it’s never enough. Let me repeat that NEVER ENOUGH. You’re too fat or too skinny. You don’t work or do work as a mom. As a female in America you will be judged for ANYTHING

And we wonder why over 25% of American women are taking a psychotropic drug. Why anxiety levels are through the roof.

During the halftime show I sat in awe of the female body and what it can do. The body I watched birthed a human 9 months ago and is CREATING ANOTHER HUMAN inside of her. And yet that body still gave her the energy to perform what might be the most important performance of her life.

And I realized that was ENOUGH. If you have birthed babies, YOU ARE ENOUGH. If you’ve never birthed babies, YOU ARE ENOUGH. If you work or stay home, YOU ARE ENOUGH. If you need to lose 50 pounds or gain 15, YOU ARE ENOUGH.

In the words of Rihanna – People gon’ talk whether you doing bad or good.

Go be the good anyway. Decide today that you are enough! YOU ARE ENOUGH. In all your brokenness. In all your flaws.

I challenge you to go tell another woman they are ENOUGH. We need more of us lifting each other up no matter our performance.

If you need help getting to a place where you feel enough, reach out. I offer one free transformation session to everyone!